Creating The Life You Wish Episodes

When Life Feels Unbearable, Two Words Can Change EverythingThere are moments when life feels like swimming upstream—against the current of relationships, work, parenting, and the state of the world itself. In this episode of Our Friendly World with Fawn and Matt, we explore a deceptively simple idea borrowed from improv that can shift how we show up in friendships and in life: “Yes, And.”

The Measuring Cup: Honesty, Self-Worth, and the Measure of Friendship What does a measuring cup have to do with dating, friendship, and self-worth?In this episode of Our Friendly World with Fawn and Matt, we revisit the infamous 1990s dating book The Rules — not to praise or dismiss it, but to look at what still holds wisdom beneath the criticism. Through the story of a single measuring cup (a gift that nearly ended our relationship before it began), we explore how honesty, authenticity, clarity, and self-respect matter far more than games or mixed signals.This conversation moves beyond romantic relationships and into the heart of true friendship:How do you know if a relationship is one-sided?When does “mystery” become healthy boundaries — and when does it become emotional avoidance?Why oversharing can be as harmful as silenceWhat self-worth actually looks like in everyday interactionsAnd why being “easy to live with” might be one of the most underrated relationship sk…

What if the feeling of being “too late” isn’t truth—but conditioning? In this episode of Our Friendly World with Fawn and Matt , a friendship podcast centered on the art of friendship, belonging, and human connection, we talk openly about the fear so many people carry: the belief that they’ve missed their moment. From finances and careers to friendship, creativity, aging, parenting, and spirituality, we explore how American culture worships early success and quietly shames late bloomers. We unpa...

In this episode of Our Friendly World with Fawn and Matt, the conversation revisits one of their favorite topics — “Be interested, not interesting” — and takes it a step further. What happens when curiosity crosses the line into gossip? How do we find that sweet spot between being genuinely curious about others and also sharing enough of ourselves to form real, balanced relationships?Through laughter and reflection, Fawn and Matt explore the world of nosy neighbors, awkward soundchecks, and the universal discomfort of hearing our own voices (and seeing our own images). Together, they uncover how relationships begin to thrive when both sides bring something meaningful to the table — when we’re interested enough to listen deeply, and interesting enough to keep growing.A reminder: true connection isn’t one-sided — it’s a living, breathing exchange of curiosity, honesty, and shared humanity.Key Themes & TakeawaysThe difference between being curious and being nosyWhy bein…

Podcast Title: The Spiritual Purchase Order: Letting Go and Trusting the Universe ✍️ Episode Description: In this short and soulful episode of Our Friendly World with Fawn and Matt , we explore the concept of a purchase order —not just in business, but as a spiritual tool. After offering a beautiful multimedia gift to a budding entrepreneur with no return or even acknowledgment, Fawn wrestles with feelings of resentment. With Matt’s wise words and a serendipitous message from the universe, she l...

In this episode of Our Friendly World with Fawn and Matt, Fawn opens up about a quiet moment on a road trip that sparked a deep realization — are we always trying to get something from life, or can we instead offer something to the world around us? This thought leads to a bigger discussion about what true power looks like, especially in times when we feel stripped of it — whether in the workplace, society, or even in friendships.Matt shares how he reclaims power at work by actively managing relationships with his bosses, while Fawn reflects on shifting from fear-based living to empowered presence. Together, they explore ways to restore personal strength through meditation, humor, grounding, and even novelty items like a toy fart ray and a "no-button."From the serious to the silly, this episode reminds us that power can be reclaimed in both grand and simple ways — and that offering, rather than taking, may be one of the most powerful acts of all.reclaiming personal power…

"What Is Cool, Really?"In this candid and fiery episode of Our Friendly World, Fawn and Matt deconstruct the elusive concept of “cool” — from childhood memories of Snoopy’s Joe Cool to painful moments of judgment in adulthood. Fawn opens up about a recent voiceover experience that triggered old wounds from the photography world, where she was dismissed for not being “cool enough.” The conversation dives into how perceptions of coolness limit friendships, fuel imposter syndrome, and distort how we see ourselves and others. Matt shares his own vulnerable moment of thinking Fawn was "too cool" for him — and how love, presence, and humanity break through those false beliefs.This is a raw, empowering episode that challenges societal norms, reclaims identity, and reminds us all that cool can't be defined — because authenticity is the real power.what is cooldefining coolnessauthenticity vs imagevoiceover industry storiesart world rejectionimposter syndrome…

Navigating the Bog: How to Set Emotional Boundaries Without Sinking Just like a bog, relationships can be rich, complex, and even a little murky at times. Without strong emotional boundaries, we risk sinking into the weight of other people’s emotions, losing sight of our own needs and energy. In this episode, we explore how to navigate emotional landscapes with self-awareness and balance, ensuring that we stay grounded while still fostering deep, meaningful connections. We discuss the role of humility, self-reflection, and mindful communication in setting boundaries that protect our well-being without shutting others out. Join us as we uncover the secrets to maintaining strong, healthy relationships without getting emotionally stuck. In this episode of Our Friendly World with Fawn and Matt, Fawn and Matt explore the intricate balance between humility, emotional energy, and boundaries in relationships. They discuss how unspoken emotions can create distance, the importance of acknow…

In this episode of Our Friendly World with Fawn and Matt, Fawn and Matt explore how lingering resentment—even in small amounts—can block success in all areas of life, including career, relationships, and financial abundance. Fawn reflects on how unresolved negative feelings create an invisible energy that repels opportunities, comparing it to an unnoticed but growing mold. She emphasizes the importance of consciously clearing resentment, just like daily maintenance for a refrigerator or brushing one’s teeth.Matt shares his perspective on directly addressing conflicts by speaking truth, while Fawn challenges him to approach forgiveness with a mindset of energetic cleansing. They discuss a simple practice of asking for divine help in forgiving and being forgiven, reinforcing that true success is built on emotional clarity.The episode closes with heartfelt shoutouts to fellow podcasters and creators, encouraging listeners to embrace daily self-reflection and energetic hygiene to attr…

In this week’s episode of Our Friendly World with Fawn and Matt, we explore the intriguing concept of "loud quitting" and how it applies to friendships. Inspired by a viral story of a marching band resignation, Fawn and Matt reflect on the impact of how we choose to leave relationships—whether professional or personal. They examine the ripple effects of toxic dynamics, the importance of grace when ending connections, and the lessons we carry forward into new chapters. With a mix of humor and heartfelt insights, this episode dives deep into how we can part ways with dignity while preserving our own well-being.loud quitting, friendship dynamics, toxic relationships, leaving with grace, personal growth, Our Friendly World, healthy connections, self-worth, podcast on relationships#LoudQuitting #FriendshipMatters #ToxicRelationships #HealthyConnections #PersonalGrowth #SelfWorth #PodcastLife #OurFriendlyWorld #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalHealth

In this week’s episode of Our Friendly World with Fawn and Matt, titled "Be Yourself", Fawn and Matt discuss the challenges of staying authentic when misunderstood by others. Fawn shares a personal story about a strained friendship, where her genuine intentions were questioned, leading to feelings of sadness and doubt. The episode highlights the importance of maintaining kindness, open-heartedness, and happiness, even when others may misinterpret these qualities. Ultimately, the message is clear: continue being yourself, no matter how others react.#BeYourself, #Authenticity, #EmotionalResilience, #PersonalGrowth, #FriendshipMatters, #OpenHearted, #TrueSelf

"When Boundaries Break: Navigating Friendship Challenges and Personal Growth"In this episode of Our Friendly World, we dive deep into the complex world of boundaries and how they impact our friendships and self-worth. Fawn shares personal stories of navigating difficult situations, where her boundaries were tested, leading to heartbreak and valuable life lessons. With insights from close friends, the discussion explores how to establish and maintain boundaries, the importance of self-respect, and the courage it takes to stand up for oneself, even when it means risking being seen as the "bad person." Tune in for an honest conversation on the challenges of protecting your emotional well-being while nurturing healthy relationships. This episode revolves around the theme of boundaries in relationships and personal interactions. Fawn and Matt discuss their experiences and insights regarding how boundaries are tested, the challenges of maintaining them, and the importance o…

"In this episode of 'Friends Unfiltered,' Fawn and Matt delve into the art of making friends with people who are vastly different from oneself. From humorous anecdotes about awkward outings to deeper insights into human curiosity and connection, they explore how stepping outside comfort zones can lead to meaningful friendships. Join them as they discuss the psychology behind curiosity, vulnerability, and positive interactions in forging bonds with those who may hold opposing views."Friendship, Curiosity, Comfort zone, Opposite personalities, Human connection, Psychology of relationships, Step outside comfort#MakingFriends, #OppositesAttract, #NewFriendships, #StepOutOfComfortZone, #SocialConnections, #PodcastEpisode, #FriendshipGoals

"Breaking the Filter Bubble: Tech Tips for a Diverse Perspective" - How to pierce the veil of the wall that divides us as people and as friends.In this week's episode of Tech Unfiltered, Fawn and Matt dive into the realm of unfiltered technology, exploring how to break free from algorithm-driven content that limits our perspectives. They discuss practical steps to diversify your online experience, from using alternative browsers like Firefox to seeking news from different global perspectives. Learn why it's crucial to see beyond the usual digital feed to become more multidimensional, aware, and connected in our tech habits. Join them for tips on how to expand your worldview and engage with content outside your comfort zone.#TechUnfiltered, #DigitalAwareness, #InternetPrivacy, #AlgorithmInsights, #DiversePerspective, #OnlineExperience, #TechTips

Join Matt and Fawn as they delve into the concept of mental fitness through the lens of negative visualization. Exploring ancient Stoic practices, they discuss how contemplating potential setbacks can build resilience and gratitude. From the origins of Stoicism to practical applications in modern life, they explore how acknowledging adversity can enhance psychological strength. Tune in for insights on balancing positive thinking with preparing for challenges in this thought-provoking episode on mental resilience and gratitude. In this episode, Matt and Fawn dive deep into the concept of "negative visualization," an ancient Stoic practice. Matt shares his recent Google Fu journey, leading him to explore how contemplating worst-case scenarios can actually foster resilience and gratitude. The discussion uncovers the surprising benefits of occasionally focusing on negative outcomes and how it contrasts with the modern emphasis on positive visualization. Tune in to discover how ancient…

In this week's episode, "The Party," Fawn and Matt discuss an eventful weekend involving their next-door neighbors' lively party. While Matt was asleep, Fawn found herself alone and feeling both inspired and lonely by the festivities next door. She braved the night, sitting outside on their deck, and reflected on her feelings about parties and social gatherings. This led to an introspective conversation between the two about what makes a party enjoyable and the art of hosting. Fawn shared her thoughts on the key elements of a successful party, and they reminisced about memorable gatherings from their past. The episode dives into the nuances of social connection, hospitality, and the significance of creating a warm and welcoming environment for friends and family. #PartyPlanning, #HostingTips, #SocialGatherings, #HospitalityIdeas, #MemorableEvents, #NeighborStories, #IntrospectiveConversations

Fawn and Matt are joined by special guest Rachael Naylor, founder of the VoiceOver Network, as they explore how to build a community from the ground up using your voice and the transformative power of vulnerability and generosity. They discuss how openness fosters deep connections and creates supportive communities, drawing from personal experiences within the VoiceOver Network. Rachael shares insights on voice acting and the impact of authenticity in communication, while Fawn reflects on her journey of growth and success. The conversation underscores the importance of embracing authenticity, practicing generosity, and cultivating positive energy to navigate challenges and foster meaningful relationships. Vulnerability, Generosity, Voiceover, Community, Authenticity, Connection, Growth#VulnerabilityMatters, #VoiceOverCommunity, #GenerosityInAction, #AuthenticConnections, #VoiceActing, #CommunitySupport, #PersonalGrowthRachael Naylorhttps://www.instagram.com/rachael.naylor/ht…

Dive into a candid conversation about the challenges of modern friendship with Fawn and Matt on this week's episode of "Questioning Conversation." As they reflect on the ongoing loneliness epidemic and their own journey in addressing it, Fawn and Matt explore the intricacies of human connection amidst pain and change. Rejecting superficiality, they share personal anecdotes and insights into fostering genuine relationships based on empathy, vulnerability, and compassionate communication. Join them as they navigate through thought-provoking questions, from the impact of loneliness to the essence of successful interpersonal connections. Discover how embracing authenticity and understanding can lead to meaningful friendships in an ever-changing world. Tune in for a refreshing perspective on friendship and connection, filled with humor, honesty, and heartfelt wisdom.Fawn and Matt navigate through a spectrum of topics, demonstrating how simple yet profound conversations can deepen bonds a…

In this week's episode, Fawn and Matt delve into the intricacies of friendship amidst pain. Fawn opens up about her recent struggles, highlighting how pain, whether physical, emotional, or spiritual, can deeply influence our interactions with others. Drawing parallels between pain and behavior, they explore how pain manifests in subtle cues like body language and tone of voice, affecting our relationships. Reflecting on personal experiences, they emphasize the importance of empathy and vulnerability in fostering meaningful connections. Offering practical insights, they discuss strategies for navigating friendships with grace and understanding, encouraging viewers to adopt a perspective of compassionate detachment. Through candid dialogue and heartfelt anecdotes, Fawn and Matt illuminate the complexities of human connection, inviting listeners to embrace empathy and kindness in their interactions.Key Themes:Understanding pain's impact on behaviorPracticing empathy and vul…

In this week's episode of "Perfect Days," Fawn and Matt dive into the importance of rituals and routines in finding happiness and deepening friendships. Inspired by a Japanese film titled "Perfect Days," the hosts explore how the protagonist's daily routines bring him peace and fulfillment, despite the mundanity of his tasks. They discuss how too many choices can lead to analysis paralysis, emphasizing the value of simplicity and shared experiences in fostering intimacy and connection with others. Through anecdotes and personal reflections, they highlight the significance of finding rituals that bring joy and meaning to everyday life. Tune in to discover the beauty in embracing rituals and the impact they can have on your happiness and relationships. #FriendshipGoals #RitualsOfFriendship #DeepeningConnections #HappinessThroughRituals #SimpleJoys #IntimateMoments #EmbracingRituals #MeaningfulConnections #EverydayHappiness #FindingJoy

This podcast episode delves into personal experiences with prejudice and discrimination, discussing the emotional impact and strategies for coping. Fawn recounts encountering prejudice in a new group, reflecting on the pain, shame, and feelings of being disregarded or unseen due to racism. The episode outlines steps to address such emotions, emphasizing acknowledging pain, accepting grief, seeking support, and nurturing oneself physically and emotionally. Fawn shares a transformative shift in perspective by communicating her desires to the universe, leading to a change in how she perceives the situation, ultimately aiming for a harmonious experience. Please tell everyone you can about our efforts in bringing back the art of friendship and transforming our society for the better. Click the subscribe button on our website:https://www.ourfriendlyworldpodcast.com/AND...Have a BEAUTIFUL EVERY DAY! And if you are able, please donate by buying us a cup of coffee at https://www.buymeacoffee…

In this episode of “Our Friendly World with Fawn and Matt,” hosts Fawn and Matt explore the concept of superstitions and how they can be traced back to ancient practices for protection. They dive into the whimsical world of superstitions and friendships. Fawn and Matt reflect on childhood beliefs, from knocking on wood to saying "bless you," intertwining these practices with the essence of friendship. As chaos swirls around, they unravel how friendships often evolve from shared anxieties and grow into something deeper, emphasizing the need to uplift each other and embrace the quirks that make friendships beautiful. In a conversation peppered with laughter and insights, they encourage listeners to lead with joy and be unapologetically themselves, being “down to clown” as they navigate life's adventures together. #Superstitions, #Friendship, #Chaos, #Anxiety, #Quirks, #Upliftment, #Joy, #Podcast, #ChildhoodBeliefs, #Laughter, #Insights, #Adventure, #Embrace, #Reflection, #Whimsical, #…

The universe has this nasty habit of expanding and contracting. And so at some point, the universe, everything that we know, everything that we live in, it'll all be in this giant mass of stuff. Well, what if that's a heartbeat, or a breath, or a, of something else?In this episode, we define Quantum Entanglement and talk about the Schumann Resonance and how it all relates to what we're all going through on the planet right now.#SantaMonica, #QuantumEntanglement, #SchumannResonance, #FalseIdols, #artoffriendshipPlease tell everyone you can about our efforts in bringing back the art of friendship and transforming our society for the better. Click the subscribe button on our website:https://www.ourfriendlyworldpodcast.com/AND...Have a BEAUTIFUL EVERY DAY! And if you are able, please donate by buying us a cup of coffee at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/friendlyspace

Like friends that are totally different from one another, coexisting through their different personalities and creating a healthy relationship with different perspectives, so too can joy and grief be friends in the same way.This week we ask how we marry joy with hard times, what happiness versus joy really is.We may feel there isn't a tie between joy and grief. The definition of JOY is: Rejoice, to rejoice, comes from rejoice, to come together, What does rejoice really mean? To rejoice in something. To come together. You're not separate. So why should we separate joy from the rest of life?We also discuss the pendulum effect, where things should have been balanced all along but because it wasn't, we need, or society then provides, zeitgeist maybe just provides this kind of hard lesson one way and then a swing back and then a swing the other way and a swing back until it eventually lands somewhere in the middle.